This week, Boys Run participants learned about collaboration and communication. In addition, they learned about varying communication styles. For example, in traditional Tlingit culture, it is often considered disrespectful to make direct eye contact, whereas in Western culture, looking someone in the eyes can be a sign of respect. Boys also practiced speaking up for themselves, listening with care, and using “I statements” to express their emotions. Here’s what some of the boys said about what they learned:
– “You shouldn’t use blaming statements when you’re talking to people.”
– “You should apologize when you hurt someone’s feelings.”
– “When people talk positive to me, it makes me feel good and happy.”
Throughout this season, Boys Run will provide the Sitka community with updates on the program. We also hope to give mentors and guardians an opportunity to pass on skills from Boys Run to the children in their life. Consider using these conversation starters:
– What should you do if your words or actions hurt or disrespecting someone?
– What are productive ways you can speak up for yourself if you feel like no one is listening to you?
Boys Run I toowú klatseen is an after-school program that promotes healthy relationships and lifestyle skills in boys through running and other fun activities. The program, now in its 10th season in Sitka, incorporates cultural activities that honor Southeast Alaska traditional tribal values. Nearly 30 third- through fifth-grade boys participate in twice-weekly practices at Keet Gooshi Heen Elementary School. The annual Boys Run I toowú klatseen 5K will take place on Saturday, May 10, and all are invited. Keep an eye out for more information as the date approaches.
Boys Run is brought to you in Sitka by the Pathways Coalition. Email Claire at schools@safv.org or call 747-3493 for more information.
